Well hey there, sugar! First of all—good for you for jumping back into crocheting! It’s like riding a bike, except a lot cozier and with fewer scraped knees. ? And believe me, you are not alone when it comes to pulling that yarn tighter than a lid on a pickle jar. I did the same thing when I started, and my first scarf could’ve doubled as a doorstop! The trick with tension is learning to relax—easier said than done, I know. Sometimes we get so focused on doing it "right" that we end up with a death grip on the yarn. Try to hold your yarn a bit looser in your non-dominant hand, and let it flow more freely. Some folks find it helpful to practice with a thicker yarn and a larger hook—like a bulky weight yarn and a size K or L hook—because it’s easier to see your stitches and keep things relaxed. Also, take little breaks and wiggle your fingers. I tell myself, “Crochet is not a tug-of-war, dear.” As for tools, you might try a yarn tension ring or guide—they slip over your finger and help the yarn glide a bit more evenly. But honestly, time and patience are your best tools. Your hands will find their rhythm again before you know it. Now, when it comes to YouTube channels, there are some lovely folks out there, but one of my personal favorites for getting back to basics is that sweet gal on “The Crochet Crowd.” He’s friendly, clear, and just makes you feel like you’re sitting down with a friend. “Bag-O-Day Crochet” is another good one—very calm and easy to follow. Happy stitching, darlin’! And don’t worry about perfection—crochet is full of love, not straight lines. ❤️
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