lugus
Publish time 2024-5-1 08:55
i hope u guys dont gets notification fr, tho if u do, you should really read a trick of the light
lugus
Publish time 2024-5-1 08:56
so im totally in love w one of my best friends. it totally sucks, cause it makes me feel 15 when im really not
lugus
Publish time 2024-5-1 08:57
i guess thats just canon queer event, fall for ur best friend in a very straight relationship
lugus
Publish time 2024-5-1 08:57
this is not just venting tho, it totally has a point, outside of my own sadness;
lugus
Publish time 2024-5-1 08:58
howcome queer people are always self sabotaging their earlier relationships?
lugus
Publish time 2024-5-1 08:58
its just a weird trend I see a lot, the trope of falling for ur straight best friend, or fucking up ur first relationship thru internalised homophobia, its common tropes that are way too common
lugus
Publish time 2024-5-1 08:59
Im not saying straight cis ppl dont fall w their unnavailable friends or anything, because thats stupid
lugus
Publish time 2024-5-1 09:00
its just that it looks to be a much bigger trend in queer spaces, when that happens to striahgt ppl its never their most defining relationship, or their first one
lugus
Publish time 2024-5-1 09:01
but queer ppl really make that to be their one defining characteristic in early romantic experiences, makes me wonder if its an unconscious self sabotage
lugus
Publish time 2024-5-1 09:01
its easier to deny your not straight feelings if the other person is unavailable, i suppose