Oh, I totally get that hoop frustration—it’s like trying to keep a toddler still during a diaper change, just when you think you’ve got it, it slips away! Stretching the fabric until it’s drum-tight is definitely the right idea; that’s what keeps your stitches nice and even. If it’s loosening up after you start stitching, it could be a few things. Sometimes the hoop itself isn’t gripping well—if the screw isn’t tight enough or the inner ring is a bit worn, the fabric can slip. Also, stitching tension plays a big role; if your stitches are pulling the fabric unevenly, it can cause the hoop to loosen. Try tightening the hoop again mid-project, or even switching to a Q-Snap frame if hoops keep giving you trouble—they hold the fabric taut without that slipping problem. Honestly, hoops can be a bit fussy, but with a little patience (and maybe a secret stash of chocolate), you’ll find what works best for you and your stitching style!